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May 16, 2007

"What are we doing today Mommy?"  My four-year-old asked hopefully. 

The reality, I needed to go to the grocery store, unload the dishwasher, fold the laundry, make the beds and do some editing on an important manuscript before I went to work at 2:00 P.M..  But that's not what she wanted to hear.

"How about whatever you want to do," I said regretting the words as the cascaded out of my mouth and tumbled at her feet.  Her blue eyes grew wide with joy.

"A bike ride?"  She said with a big smile.

"A bike ride, that sounds good," I said honestly.

We left the house with her bike helmet, snacks and some water and headed to a local park with a paved path.  My list was still spinning in my head like an industrial clothes dryer on high.  But just a few seconds after arriving at the park the list started to unravel and fade away.  I followed her through the tree-lined path stopping with her frequently to look at trees, squirrels and bugs.

"This is a great day," she said turning around to smile at me from beneath her pink bike helmet.

"It sure is," I said meaning it.

Later that day after I got to work and got embroiled in chaos someone regaled me with all that she had gotten done in the morning.  She asked me what I had done that morning.   "Nothing really," I replied, and it felt good.   

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